This is about 25 random things, facts, habits or goals about you which nobody is quite aware of or even if they are, there is no harm in repeating them :P. It is originally a facebook tag, a note actually where I had been tagged long back. I was supposed to pass it on. But for reasons unknown to me, I didn’t. I was going through some of the notes that I had been tagged into and bumped into this one. Thought of doing this as a blogpost, more so because I have been sounding all serious and stuff nowadays..haven’t done something random for long on my blog. so here it goes. And I don’t tag anybody in particular, steal as you wish. After all, it’s always great to know about you my dear friend. So here it goes
1. My father had Tagore all over his mind while naming me Paushali, but my teachers, friends, colleagues always had a tough time pronouncing/remembering/spelling my name. So I have been called Panchali, Poshla, Poshmashali/Kaushali- everything….yes! beat that. closer ones have settled for Posh/Pau. The fact remains that I have never quite forgotten or forgiven whatever they have done to my name and wait for a chance to retaliate.
2. I am a hopeless romantic at heart and keep falling in and out of love often. Yes! that’s quite true. Shekhar from Parineeta was literally my first crush and then I moved on to Amit Ray. Looking back, I detest both of them. But my longest crush had been on my maths teacher, a neighbourhood dada whom I fell for hook line and sinker. Years later when we had become good friends and stuff, we both had a hearty laugh over this. But mind you, when his finace told me “so you are paushali. have heard a lot about you.”- that was a true embarrassing moment *blush*
3. Thinking of love, I had once imagined a guy as my dream man who grew up to be like this- Posts his bodybuilding pictures on Orkut, still uses Orkut, once wrote me a scrap like- “hello sweetiez, wad r u upto?” Needless to say I hated myslef and my choices at particular points of time.
4. But I still believe in Mr. Right…the kind I will be head over heels in love. Yes! I still wait for him to sweep me out of my feet. Or for that matter sing “Hoyto tomari jonyo…” or “tomaake chaayi” for me while expressing his love. Gangar ghat, sun soaked winter evening at Victoria- what more does a woman want? 😉
5. Aamir Khan was my favourite actor once. And I still like watching all those films of his with Juhi Chawla. Love their chemistry. But then SRK happened to me. I chanced upon Baazigar. The rest is history.
6. Nothing works for me like mush does. I have now lost count of the times I have seen DDLJ, QSQT, HAHK, KKHH. Same goes for Hollywood stuff. Give me 27 Dresses anyday and I will be happy. And before you judge me, Did I mention I once did a jurisprudence project on Dev D? or for that matter I had to drop out at the last moment while doing a comparative analysis between Charulata and Noshtoneer for a writeup since the original text was not available online.
7. I love watching people, studying their minds. In fact, I have seen that the more I am ignored, the more am I interested.
8. I am a true blue Capricorn and after watching Dabangg am so happy to share my birthday with the one and only Salman Khan.
9. My Baba is my role model. He had been so since my childhood. I always wanted to be like him. My passion for law was nurtured in NALSAR but it all began with him.
10. I take it as a huge compliment if anybody tells me that I walk or talk like my Baba.
11. I love Jane Austen. Same with Shorot Chattujjey, Jhumpa Lahiri, Suchitra Bhattacharya, Bani Basu and Vikram Seth, but Robi Thakur is my guiding star. I keep on re discovering him now and again.
12. I love my books. They are scattered all over the place in my room, across Calcutta and Hyderabad, but deep down I have a soft corner for all of them. The second thing on my list may be a piece of antique jewellery I treasure.
13. That reminds me, I have a thing for everything old. A senior in Law School once told me, you are born 30 years too late. Yes! I romanticise Calcutta of 1960’s and 70’s.
14. I love Soumitra. One of the reasons I so want to go back in time. I want that parar rock er adda to come back live when he steps up and says- “gurumoshayi toley chollen naki?”
15. Needless to say am a huge fan of Kishore Kumar, Asha Bhonsle, Lata Mageshkar, Manna De and likes. My friends in hostel often complain- “tum yeh kya sunti rehti ho?” 😛 that doesn’t stop me from playing “munni badnaam huyi” at full volume though 😛
16. I can’t draw. That’s one thing I will rue all my life. My sister is a beautiful painter, but I can’t draw to save my life. My mom tried to instill that skill in me for long but she gave up ultimately.
17. My dad is my favourite but with age I have realised that my mom had a great influence on me. The way she had instilled all those values of “maniye guchiye newa” “sobaike niye eksathe thaka” in the rebel inside me- hats off to her.
18. I consider my sister as my little kid. She is nine years younger than me. I boss around her quite a bit but ultimately get beaten up in the process. she is also the more mature one. I am still the one who learns form her mistakes.
19. I love taking trips. Ask Shreya. I am the prankstar of my group. There are numerous instances of me passing chits and embarrassing people.
20. I love wearing saris. I have a tough time coping with the odd glances that middle aged, trying to be hep aunties give me when I declare my love for saris- too bad, they just missed the most amazing piece of clothing ever.
21. In case I want to be reborn…..I will like to be reborn as an Indian bengali woman. Five years in law school, interactions with people across the country and world- no body respects woman like bengalis do.
22. Also I love matchmaking. Needless to say the success rate is very good.
23. I miss school. Those days of Class VIII and IX in Nava Nalanda or for that matter those XI XII days in South Point…..seriously “those were the days”
24. I use the exit button silently many times for people I don’t like in my life. Either I make them see the point or I leave-silently offcourse.
25. Last but not the least, law school introduced me to the pleasures of cooking and I truly believe that it has therapeutic effects. So in case you lost a moot, didn’t do well in your surprises- Cook!